A woman’s worth – Redescoperirea Feminitatii

“The eternal feminine draws us upward.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

At every moment, a woman makes a choice: between the state of the queen and the state of the slavegirl. In our natural state, we are glorious beings. In the world of illusion, we are lost and imprisoned, slaves to our appetites and our will to false power. Our jailer is a three-headed monster–one head our past, one our insecurity, and one our popular culture.

Our past is a story existing only in our minds. Look, analyze, understand, and forgive. Then, as quickly as possible, chuck it.

Our insecurity is inevitable in the absence of personal meaning. Without a sense of connection to deeper, more noble ideas, we are doomed to a desperate struggle for things that fill us up: the job, the relationship, the looks, the body. We are tyrannized by a belief that we are inadequate.

The monster’s third head is the pop culture we collectively spend millions of dollars supporting each year. It does not support us in return. Most movies do not love us, most advertising does not love us, most of the fashion industry does not love us, and most rock and roll does not love us.

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New things lie in store for the earth, and one of them is us. Womanhood is being recast, and we’re pregnant, en masse, giving birth to our own redemption.


Watch. Wait . Time will unfold and fulfill its purpose. While we wait, we must not go unconscious. We must think and grow. Rejoice and dream, but kneel and pray. There is holiness in the air today; we are giving birth to goddesses. They are who we are, for they are us: friends, therapists, artists, businesswomen, teachers, healers, mothers. Start laughing, girls. We have a new calling.

You can tell who we are: We use whatever our business is as a front for talking about things that really matter. We’re only stuck in this kind of work now, you see, because our real work was taken away from us several thousand years ago. We looked on the map, but our town was gone. We looked through the catalog but couldn’t find the course we wanted. It’s as if someone removed our throne.. but they couldn’t take away our longing to sit on it. 

“What?” you say. “Me, a goddess?” Yes, I say, and don’t act so surprised. You knew when you were little that you were born for something special and no matter what happened to you, that couldn’t be erased. The magic could not be drained from your heart. Sorry to tell you, but you had it right years ago, and then you forgot ..You were born with a mystical purpose. In reading this now, you might remember what it is.

Together we embark on a quest for our own enchantment. It will take us to a place where what is feminine is sacred, as are a lot of other things as well. There we can become who we are meant to be and live the life we are meant to live. But we need to see the lay of the land, and we need to see clearly the way back home.

There are women who are enchanted, living here now as there have always been and always will be. They are bearers of the Goddess’s torch, however dim its light may shine. On the inner planes, they are priestesses and queens. They are absolutely powerful; they have made it past the gates. I have known a few, and I have heard of others. And I will tell you all I know, of who they are and how they do it.

 ( by Marianne Williamson)



Author: Alina Dospinescu

Psiholog, trainer si Specialist in Academia Femeilor, Alina ajuta femeile sa se deschida fata de energia sacra a feminitatii si sa faca din viata in trup de femeie o binecuvantare pentru sine si pentru cei dragi. In calitate de facilitator de workshopuri si Grupuri pentru femei, ofera nu doar consilere si ghidare prin exercitii practice de feminitate (fata in fata si online), ci si caldura sufleteasca si incredere in sine femeilor cu care lucreaza, pentru ca stie ca orice transformare porneste in primul rand din inima. Alina aduce bucurie, iubire, transformare si o scanteie de magie divina in viata femeilor ce aleg sa descopere feminitatea lor unica si fascinanta in minunatul cadru al Grupurilor de Feminitate.

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